Hussain
OP’s sister who is about 23 years old runs a business of bakery and most of the time she is short staffed which means she has to do a lot of work in order to meet the needs. OP’s sister does a lot of orders for wedding cakes which requires a lot of time as you have to make custard or marmalade fillings, as OP saw her sister struggling a lot lately he offered some help by making these fillings at home and deliver her to the bakery so she has less work to do.
But sadly the past four times OP made the fillings in which her girlfriend literally dipped her fingers and contaminated the whole jar. OP made her understand that if you dip your fingers in the jar gets contaminated and he has to make the filling again. And if she really has a strong urge to taste the fillings she can use a spoon instead which will save the entire jar from getting contaminated. But she replied she likes to dip her fingers because it takes her back to her childhood.
So the other day OP is making some chocolate custard to send to her sister so he can assist her as she was running really late on that wedding cake order for an important client. OP told her girlfriend beforehand not to dip her fingers into the custard and if she wants to try it out so badly she can use a spoon. What happens next is gonna stun you, ladies and gentlemen. So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know who’s the A-hole here.
1. OP assists her sister by making fillings of cakes at home so she has less work to do
2. Past four times OP made these fillings but her girlfriend dipped her fingers into the filling jar which resulted in contamination of the whole jar, OP asked her to use a spoon instead of dipping her fingers when she has the urge to eat.
3. OP told her girlfriend beforehand that if she wants to eat the custard she can use a spoon
4. OP lost his cool when she saw her dipping her fingers into the jar for the 5th time
5. Even though OP did not fat-shame her she started crying and got mad at OP claiming he fat-shamed her
6. This is hilarious but that’s what children do not adults and she is totally acting up like a child
7. This comment made OP laugh
8. This user thinks that her crying and the fat shaming part was an excuse to get out of trouble, what do you think?
9. This user got a point, what if OP did it? Would she react differently?
10. The best excuse OP is gonna give is when caught in the act “it takes me back to my childhood”
11. And the problem would still be here “contamination”
12. NTA
13. Seems like it otherwise, no adult would dare to do the same act for the 5th time even though they are declined to do it
14. Anyone with an ounce of common sense which we think she lacks
15. OP is definitely NTA
16. She is wrecking OP’s relationship with her sister
17. There might be some hidden issues around food that urge her to do it!
18. These could be the motives
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