Husband Wants A Share In Wife’s Salary Because She’s Working From His Home

Welcome to today’s reddit story. When your significant other unfairly wants more than their fair share of financial benefits in the relationship, there are indeed only a few choices left. While one option is undoubtedly to confront the situation head-on and demand accountability but that’s not very likely to work, another option is to cut ties. The latter is the exact response the majority of commenters in the AITA thread advocated when OP shared her issue.

Source: u/Emil536775

#1) Reddit user asks for advice.

#2) OP began working from home recently and used one empty room in the house they live in, which her husband calls his property.

#3) OP’s husband asked for 30% of her salary as compensation for using the room even though the mortgage was paid off and OP pays half the bills and does the chores. She refuses and a fight ensues.

OP began by outlining how her husband demanded a tenant’s charge for her working from home. She basically lives with her husband, who insists that he owns the place they inhabit together. OP doesn’t really mind her husband’s logic as she agrees that he bought the house before they got together. That arrangement hadn’t particularly been an issue until she begun working from home. Since the house had two rooms, one of them was empty, and that room ended up being converted by OP into an office area where she could work peacefully. One night, her husband walked in and demanded 30% of her income after explaining that her work area was part of his property.

The husband made the argument that he could have used the room for different purposes had it not been occupied by OP and so she is obligated to pay rent. The argument intensified into a proper fight, with each party making their point and OP rejecting his demand of a financial share. Her husband accused her of benefitting from his space, and OP responded by emphasizing her share in the chores and paying half the bills. The couple’s fight escalated to the involvement of family members, and differing opinions arose. Read the whole story down below:

#4) Her husband’s family gets involved with his mother being on his side. Is OP the a**hole?

The husband’s perception of a transactional relationship with her wife is no doubt unhealthy and damaging. It’s characterized by one-sided power dynamics and disregard for OP’s emotions which is a very serious matter. While the Reddit poster could handle the situation in different ways, the general consensus on the AITA thread is that she is NTA. People believe it’s time to move on to a healthier relationship dynamic. Read what they’re saying down below:

Source: u/Emil536775