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Mother Asks If She’s Selfish For Refusing To Take Less Child Support And Putting Her Kid First

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In today’s rapidly evolving family landscape, situations often arise that demand delicate negotiations and thoughtful considerations. One such scenario revolves around child support, family dynamics, and the intricate balance between financial obligations and personal choices. A Reddit post recently shed light on a contentious issue where a mother is confronted with a request to reduce child support by her ex-partner’s current wife due to her high-risk pregnancy. This article delves into the nuances of the situation, exploring the perspectives of all parties involved and seeking to answer the question: What truly constitutes fairness in such complex family arrangements?

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The story centers on a mother and her 12-year-old son, who live alone with child support being their primary source of financial stability. The father of the child remarried eight years ago, and the new couple went on to have three children of their own. With each new addition to the family, the father sought to have his child support obligations reduced, but these attempts were consistently denied by the judge. The court’s reasoning was clear: reducing child support due to expanding family size could potentially encourage having more children as a strategy to lessen financial responsibilities towards former partners.

Keep on scrolling down to read the full story in OP’s own words and we will see you at the end of the article.

1. Is OP an A-hole for putting her kid first? Keep on scrolling down to find out.

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2. OP and her son live alone OP gets child support from his father

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3. His wife contacted OP she said that she is pregnant with a high-risk pregnancy and needs time off work

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4. OP said that he is supporting his kid and not her and it was her choice to have kids with someone who already had one

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5. Exactly If she and her husband can’t afford to have more children, they shouldn’t be having more children

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6. Exactly OP has to look after her child

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7. This Redditor says that her calling OP names is amusing.

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8. Yeah why even are they getting pregnant over and over again on purpose when they know they cannot afford to pay for another child?

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9. This Redditor says that her ex’s first responsibility is to his children with his first partner and that’s the way the law works.

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10. OP could do that

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11. Exactly they should just stop if they don’t have money

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12. Exactly that’s their problem not OP’s

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13. That’s her business not OP’s

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14. It’s that simple isn’t it?

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15. Couldn’t agree more

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16. Exactly OP is doing what a mom is supposed to do

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17. That would be hilarious

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18. Exactly OP’s child deserves every penny and the court thinks so too

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19. He is not wrong!

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20. OP should block her

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