Malaika
Consent is key in every relationship.
Whether we talk about marriage or even friendship. Some people seem to think that the concept of consent isn’t needed in a marriage but that isn’t true. Just because you are married, does not mean you can force your partner to do whatever you want. After all, marriage is about compromise and partnership and it can’t work if one partner does not respect the wishes of the other partner.
And we have a perfect example of this concept in the following story. As a warning beforehand, this particular story talks a lot about not safe for work concepts like bedroom problems and k*nks, so if you are not comfortable with any of that, we wouldn’t recommend that you move forward with it. However, for those who are interesting in reading this story, the only thing I can say is that it left me with more questions than answers and it was not what I expected.
So scroll below to take a look for yourself.
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The title of this story does not do it justice and there is a lot that will be explained.
However, we get right into it with the wife explaining how things change on the night of their honeymoon.
It seemed like quite the abrupt change for the woman but she went along with it for now.
However, things just kept escalating and she didn’t know what to do anymore.
Things kept taking a new turn every time and rather than communicating her feelings, she didn’t want to hurt him.
The guy wanted to take things even further and kept buying new things that would help with his cross-dressing k*nk.
She had even allowed him to go outside of their marriage because he was bi.
This statement does seem a bit weird though. Being bi does not mean that you can’t be in a monogamous relationship. I am not saying polyamory is wrong because it is not as long as both parties consent to it but this particular situation sort of goes into the stereotype of bi people not being able to stay monogamous to one gender which is completely false. But they didn’t talk about it beforehand so we can’t really judge.
However, things finally crossed the line for the wife when she learned that he wanted to go on estrogen.
You might think that this is where their relationship ended but things actually took a turn for the better, at least for her.
It seemed like a happy year for her as things became quite traditional and they decided to have a baby as well.
And that is when he went right back to it.
He brought back all the stuff and she could do nothing but watch.
And he started springing in things even before June.
It also seemed as if he didn’t care what she thought at this point and only wanted to fulfill his k*nks.
Things became even weirder and he started to force her to join in with him when she was clearly uncomfortable.
And then he kept pressuring her to say that he looked cute even when it was clear that she wanted nothing to do with it.
Honestly, rather than anything getting better, things just kept taking a turn for the worst.
And now she is stuck in a situation where she can’t do anything.
Either she accepts him and lives a miserable life or leaves him.
It is also clear that she loves him but does not love this part of him.
She also added a bit more information as to why she thinks that he is not Trans.
Since there is a bit more that goes into being Trans than just dressing up like the other gender.
People in the comments had a lot of conflicting opinions but generally, people urged her to divorce him.
What are your thoughts on this? Do you think she should leave him or try to work on the relationship because of their future kid? What do you think about the husband’s behavior? Comment down below and let us know.
Just to be clear, we are not here to shame anyone for their f*tishes and everyone can explore their k*nks as much as they want as long as they are doing it in a safe situation and with a consenting partner. However, both parties have to be into it for it to work and you can’t force anyone to join in if the other person feels uncomfortable.