Even though kids can be adorable, not everyone is a fan. So, when you’re a parent and still want to hang out with friends, planning is key. In a story from the subreddit “Am I The A$$hole?“, we have at the center of it Reddit user Plastic_Tea2094, part of a friend group with his wife and their two-year-old son. Among them is a friend who isn’t keen on children.
Despite this, they all planned a 5-day trip to a beach house, knowing two members had kids. One parent, a single dad, intended to bring his daughter, so the group agreed. However, he had to cancel last minute due to his daughter’s illness. The friend questioned why OP and his wife didn’t leave their son behind, but they had no other childcare options. OP and her husband couldn’t leave their son behind because there were no childcare options to avail at the last minute. The friend questioned their choice of bringing their son along and it caused a major strain to the overall happiness of the trip.
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Source: Plastic_Tea2094
1. Let’s find out!
2. OP and his wife are part of a friends group that has one more couple and three single individuals.
3. One of the group members, Zoe, doesn’t like kids and often takes it too far when they are around her.
4. The group decided to take a 5-day winter trip to a beach owned by one member, Greg.
5. Tim is a single father so he had to bring his daughter along.
6. So it was mutually decided that Tim’s daughter and OP’s son would come along on the trip.
7. Just two days before the trip, Tim canceled because his daughter got sick. Zoe assumed OP’s son won’t be coming either.
8. With MIL not in town, and OP and Mrs. having no other babysitting options, the couple decided to bring their son along.
9. Zoe started complaining after hearing there was still going to be a kid on the trip despite Tim canceling.
I don’t mind people not in favor of the concept of having kids, or people who have decided to go child-free. It is their life, they can very well decide what is best for them. But Zoe is taking it a bit too far by saying she can’t even stand the presence of a kid in the same room she is in. That crosses the line and is borderline unfair to those who have kids and can’t leave them alone. It’s not like the kid will bite her and give her an untreatable infection. I think Zoe was running her mouth more than it was required.
After this trip, OP needs to reconsider this friendship because I don’t think their relationship is suitable. Let’s see what happens next. Scroll down below to continue reading!
Source: Plastic_Tea2094
10. The couple tried their best to keep the contact between Zoe and their son minimal just so she could have a good time.
11. The kid was in Zoe’s vicinity for a total of 4 times during the entire trip and she still blamed OP and his wife for ruining her vacation.
12. After the trip, Zoe decided to cut all connection with OP and his wife.
13. The matter was taken to the courts of the AITA community.
Source: Plastic_Tea2094
Here are some of the comments shared on the story:
14. Zoe was a bit too extra about her dislike for kids.
Via AllAFantasy30
15. Zoe was taking it too far with that behavior.
Via evil-mouse
16. Point to ponder.
17. OP did way more than Zoe deserved to respect her.
Via MelissaIsBBQing
18. If she was that bothered by it, she could have just not come.
Via Ratfinkz13
19. You cannot classify such a person as a “friend”.
Via IronyHurts
20. And that is why, my friend, Zoe was the AH in this story.
Via MapleTheUnicorn
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