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In this story, a 15-year-old girl and her 13-year-old sister are struggling to adjust to their father’s remarriage to Nina, who has brought significant changes to their family dynamics. The primary issue revolves around mealtime, where Nina has taken over most of the cooking but tends to prepare meals that the girls do not enjoy. When the girls express their dissatisfaction, their father insists that they need to eat healthier and encourages them to adapt to Nina’s cooking. This change in meal preparation has left the girls missing the individualized meals their father used to make for them, which catered to their preferences.
Additionally, the girls have noticed a shift in their father’s behavior since he married Nina. He no longer comes inside their mother’s place when they visit, opting to wait in the car or on the porch, and family vacations have become a thing of the past due to what their father describes as the need for “boundaries” now that he’s married. The girls feel that this shift reflects a change in their father’s priorities, with his relationship with Nina taking precedence over the family bond they used to share.
So keep on scrolling down below to know the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end. Otherwise, you won’t be able to tell us who’s the A-hole here.
1. OP’s parents divorced 6 years ago and now OP’s dad got married last year to Nina, OP said she was nice at first but then everything started to change. Let’s see what happened keep on scrolling.
2. When OP and her sister complain about the food her dad says that they need to eat healthy
3. When OP asked her father why doesn’t he make the food for them he replied that it doesn’t make sense for two people to be cooking in the kitchen at the same time
4. The father said to OP if they really hate what she cooks then he won’t be forcing them to eat they are more than welcome to make their own arrangements like sandwiches
5. Now OP thinks it’s not fair that she gets to make whatever she wants
6. Moreover, OP said that back in the past their father used to come into our mom’s place to wait or help pack things up but now he just waits in the car. And when OP confronted him about it he said they are old enough to pack their own stuff.
7. When OP asked her dad he confessed he was comfortable with it back then visiting her mom’s place but now that he’s married he thinks it’s not appropriate and there needs to be boundaries
8. OP thinks that if their father divorced her they would be happier
9. OP said she just wants things to be the way they were back then and their stepmother has no right to mess with that and change it all
10. This user said OP is an A-hole and a whiny crybaby and she needs to grow up and stop acting like a 4-year-old
11. This user thinks that OP is spoiled and she needs to get her act together she’s not a kid anymore
12. A lot of responses from the users are that OP is an A-hole for reacting like this over normal parenting
13. I really hope she understands it not one day but soon
14. Exactly, this user is totally right. If they don’t like the meals Nina cooks they are old enough to start learning to make a few dishes for themselves.
15. YTA
16. After all, she is trying to do her part well. Meanwhile, OP and her sister need to do their part as well.
17. Totally a ridiculous reason to justify a divorce
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