Imagine you’re at work, and there’s talk of a baby shower for a colleague about to welcome their first child. Excitement fills the air as plans unfold for a small lunchtime celebration. However, there’s a catch! A request for contributions. One colleague, Reddit user Previous_Green_9533, hesitated. They were thrilled for their pregnant coworker but felt uneasy about pitching in $200 for the event.
OP’s dilemma wasn’t just about money; it was about principle. They believed in celebrating their coworker’s joy but didn’t see why it required a financial contribution. The pressure mounted as coworkers stressed the importance of participation, equating it with being a good team player.
Scroll down below to read the story!
Source: Previous_Green_9533
1. Let’s find out!
2. OP’s coworker recently got pregnant. She had to go to a fertility clinic to do the needful.
3. OP congratulated her upon getting the news and was sincerely happy for her.
4. With the coworker into her 7th month of pregnancy and soon to take her maternity leave, some other coworkers decided to throw her a little baby shower.
5. The two coworkers who were planning the whole thing came up to OP and asked him to contribute something to the party. He refused.
6. They called OP selfish for not contributing.
7. OP’s girlfriend also said he was wrong and that he should have contributed to the babyshower. The matter was taken to the courts of the AITA community.
NTA. Never in a million years will $200 be able to justify a cake, some cupcakes, and soda. Never! What sort of a party were these guys planning to throw that required coworkers to contribute two freaking hundred dollars. Even if they asked 5 people to contribute, that’s $1,000. This was kind of out of order. And OP can’t be forced because he never initiated the plan.
Source: Previous_Green_9533
Here are some of the comments shared on the story:
8. I know right?
Via Reddit
9. $5 would have been a reasonable contribution.
Via pineboxwaiting
10. Were they planning to call a celebrity singer to the party or something?
11. Even if the contribution required was $5, OP not wanting to pay would never make him an AH.
Via AbstractUnicorn
12. It is actually rude.
Via DavidANaida
13. That would explain the high cost per cupcake.
Via dfjdejulio
14. OP got called an AH for dissing the whole “collecting money to celebrate a colleague” thing.
Via Ok-Carpet5433
15. OP is in the clear because he didn’t have any commitment to the pregnant coworker.
Via FewChicken2854
16. I would like them to try and justify that price point.
17. Even if the office had 4 people, in what world does it cost $800 to throw a “small” party?
Via louisebelcherr
18. Your money, your choice.
Via EbonyDoe
19. $200 to make a coworker happy? I will pass.
Via alicat777777
20. It was a ridiculous demand. OP did great by refusing to be a part of that party.
I really hope you guys enjoyed this one. Don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments section below.
Stay tuned for more stories!
Via Edibletapes
Dog tax.
“My dog, Aspen always grabs things out of the pantry and brings them to us with this face.”
GIPHY App Key not set. Please check settings