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Employee Refuses To Contribute $200 For A Co-worker’s Baby Shower, Gets Called Selfish

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Imagine you’re at work, and there’s talk of a baby shower for a colleague about to welcome their first child. Excitement fills the air as plans unfold for a small lunchtime celebration. However, there’s a catch! A request for contributions. One colleague, Reddit user Previous_Green_9533, hesitated. They were thrilled for their pregnant coworker but felt uneasy about pitching in $200 for the event.

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OP’s dilemma wasn’t just about money; it was about principle. They believed in celebrating their coworker’s joy but didn’t see why it required a financial contribution. The pressure mounted as coworkers stressed the importance of participation, equating it with being a good team player.

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1. Let’s find out!

2. OP’s coworker recently got pregnant. She had to go to a fertility clinic to do the needful.

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3. OP congratulated her upon getting the news and was sincerely happy for her.

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4. With the coworker into her 7th month of pregnancy and soon to take her maternity leave, some other coworkers decided to throw her a little baby shower.

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5. The two coworkers who were planning the whole thing came up to OP and asked him to contribute something to the party. He refused.

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6. They called OP selfish for not contributing.

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7. OP’s girlfriend also said he was wrong and that he should have contributed to the babyshower. The matter was taken to the courts of the AITA community.

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NTA. Never in a million years will $200 be able to justify a cake, some cupcakes, and soda. Never! What sort of a party were these guys planning to throw that required coworkers to contribute two freaking hundred dollars. Even if they asked 5 people to contribute, that’s $1,000. This was kind of out of order. And OP can’t be forced because he never initiated the plan.

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Here are some of the comments shared on the story:

8. I know right?

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Via Reddit

9. $5 would have been a reasonable contribution.

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Via pineboxwaiting

10. Were they planning to call a celebrity singer to the party or something?

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Via whyamionthishellsite

11. Even if the contribution required was $5, OP not wanting to pay would never make him an AH.

Via AbstractUnicorn

12. It is actually rude.

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Via DavidANaida

13. That would explain the high cost per cupcake.

Via dfjdejulio

14. OP got called an AH for dissing the whole “collecting money to celebrate a colleague” thing.

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Via Ok-Carpet5433

15. OP is in the clear because he didn’t have any commitment to the pregnant coworker.

Via FewChicken2854

16. I would like them to try and justify that price point.

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Via Critical_Fall_6323

17. Even if the office had 4 people, in what world does it cost $800 to throw a “small” party?

Via louisebelcherr

18. Your money, your choice.

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Via EbonyDoe

19. $200 to make a coworker happy? I will pass.

Via alicat777777

20. It was a ridiculous demand. OP did great by refusing to be a part of that party.

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Via Acceptable-Pace9129

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