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In this story, a man is grappling with the challenges of having his pregnant sister-in-law, Ann, live with him and his wife. Ann’s relationship with her baby’s father is on the rocks, prompting her to move in temporarily. The man and his wife both have jobs, leaving Ann at their home during the day. While Ann is generally a good houseguest, her pregnancy-induced mood swings, cravings, and emotional moments are taking a toll on the man, who often finds himself running errands for her.
Tensions escalate when OP refuses to fetch fast food for Ann at 1 a.m. and voices his frustration about not wanting to serve as her partner. The next day, he declines to make her a sandwich and insists that he’s neither her baby’s daddy nor her servant, urging her to devise a plan for her future. This confrontation results in Ann breaking down emotionally, and the man leaves to cool off. Upon his return, he faces his wife’s anger and accusations of being insensitive, and he realizes that the situation is becoming increasingly untenable as Ann’s stay drags on without a clear resolution in sight.
Now OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole for refusing to make her a sandwich and we can only tell it by reading the whole story. So make sure to read it till the end and let us know who’s the A-hole here.
1. OP’s wife’s sister is 5 months pregnant, and she and her boyfriend had a lot of problems lately so she decided to live with OP. Ann works remotely and she’s often at home doing her job, and OP also said that she’s a good house guest.
2. Ann often has mood swings and she gets emotional due to fluctuations of hormones moreover, she also gets cravings which is a thing for OP to solve as he has to go out of the house to get her something to eat.
3. And when OP protests about it her wife says that Ann is going through a tough time and they need to be supportive of her
4. OP blew up on her wife when she wanted OP to go get some fast food for Ann at 1 AM, OP said that he’s done with it and he isn’t an errand boy to do this task.
5. Next day OP was making himself a sandwich and when Ann saw it she asked OP if he could make her one OP replied all of the ingredients were on the counter and she could make it herself but she responded she was lightheaded and some would help her
6. OP tried telling her no but she got emotional and ranted about how difficult it is to be pregnant, but then she wanted OP to heat the lunchmeat.
7. OP got frustrated and said that he’s not her servant and she needs to figure out a plan soon because it’s not working for him
8. Ann started crying and OP went out of the home to cool down but as soon as he came home her wife snapped at him and called him an A-hole for not making her a sandwich and threatening to kick her out
9. OP’s wife said that this would be temporary and Ann would figure out her stuff but OP sees less progress toward this solution
10. This user said OP is NTA and her wife is planning to raise Ann’s baby together moreover, this user said six weeks pregnant is not a rough patch.
11. Exactly, OP’s not her errand boy and she needs to figure this out herself.
12. This is not craziness it is laziness
13. NTA OP is not responsible for her pregnancy
14. This is right it’s only the beginning right now, the question is how is she gonna handle it afterward?
15. Almost everyone said OP is NTA and that’s because he is right and he’s not responsible for her pregnancy
16. Ann needs to figure out her stuff ASAP
17. A proper talk is compulsory in this situation otherwise, things are gonna get messier for OP.
From the user’s response above it is obvious that OP is not an A-hole and Ann needs to figure out her stuff ASAP moreover, OP’s wife owes her husband an apology.
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