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There is no perfect recipe for a happy, successful, and lasting marriage. What works for one couple might not work for the other as we all are different with different needs and personalities. So to keep this bond intact, both persons have to adjust and compromise to maintain the harmony and balance of their relationship. But bottling up emotions for far long can cause the volcano to erupt at any moment and sometimes at the wrong time. Even according to research, lack of understanding and frequent fights or arguments are among the common causes of divorce among couples. Something similar happened with our OP u/Disastrous_Word_905, who has been married for six years to his wife, and they both have been fighting with each other for quite a while now. OP didn’t mention his previous fights but narrated the latest one in a catharsis post made on AITA Reddit, which can lead to their possible divorce.
Scroll down to read what happened between this couple.
Source: Reddit
1. My wife is not a great mother as she thinks.
2. Couple married for six years but now goes to couple therapy…still likely to divorce?
3. Even being the doormat in the relationship is not helping OP to save the sinking ship of their relationship.
4. OP’s wife is insecure and competitive towards her high school friend according to OP.
5. Although being a SAHM, OP’s wife is privileged enough to drop off their daughter at her grandparents for some much-needed personal time.
6. M, her high school friend doesn’t have the privilege of having an extended family so her three children go to day-care when she wants her much-needed personal relaxing time.
7. OP’s wife is against sending kids to daycare about which she is very vocal to her friend often and this led to the cause of latest fight between OP and his wife.
8. OP can’t take it anymore and he finally erupted.
Now let’s see what other Redditors have to say about their fight and the situation of their relationship.
9. Sometimes you just gotta say it…
10. React before it’s too late.
11. OP tried a lot but she is nowhere to listen…
12. Maybe it is high time to let go??
13. Not a good example of a married relationship for the daughter.
14. Not a good friend for sure but not a good mother? not sure about that…
15. Day-care is different for everyone…it has its own pros and cons.
16. Day-care vs staying at home?
17. You don’t have to agree with your spouse every single time just because they are your spouse.
18. Can’t see past her privilege.
19. You are not the one to be blamed.
20. Mean girl??
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