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In this story, the 27-year-old woman, a single mother of two, has been with her boyfriend for six months and plans to buy a house within two years to provide stability for her children. Despite her boyfriend expressing a desire to be involved in the home-buying process and co-own the house, she explains that the primary focus is on securing a stable future for her kids. With her boyfriend currently unemployed and unable to contribute equally to the down payment, she insists on purchasing the house in her name to safeguard her children’s home in case of a potential breakup. Despite offering alternative ways for him to contribute financially, such as paying other bills, her boyfriend seems reluctant and insists on a 50-50 arrangement. The woman grapples with the decision, prioritizing her children’s well-being over potential compromises in the relationship.
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1. OP has been with her boyfriend for 6 months and their relationship is going awesome so far moreover, OP has been saying to her boyfriend that she’s going to buy a house in 2 years.
2. OP has been a single mom of 2 kids and she had her first baby when she was only 14 she has struggled and was homeless for about a year moreover, OP was grown in a stable home and she wants to give her children the same.
3. OP has been earning well for the past 4-5 years she has been making money as a tattoo artist and now the issue is her boyfriend said he would be feeling awkward moving into a house if it was only her and now he wants to be included in owning the house.
4. OP’s boyfriend is not currently working as he got fired from his job and now he’s saying he won’t be able to contribute 50% of the down payment so OP explained to him the house isn’t for him and neither for her, it’s for the kids.
5. OP says she can’t risk the possibility that if they broke up the house will be split in half so he insisted that he would be paying 50, now some OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole for buying the house and keeping her in her name only
6. Here’s an edit OP provided to users
7. NTA
8. Yeah it’s a red flag, what do you guys think let us know.
9. This could be a possibility!
10. Exactly, buying homes is for married people.
11. A nice question to be answered for OP
12. Now this user is speaking facts!
13. Not even a single person said OP is an A-hole and we could predict why
14. Straight forward he seems to be greedy yeah
15. Exactly, it’s about OP’s kid and that’s what she has been wanting.
16. OP’s money OP’s rule
17. Rental Agreement, what do you think viewers?
18. Yeah we are proud in OP!
19. And thinking about the kids can be the best thing a parent can do!
20. It’s not a big deal exactly!
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