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OP (F23) recently excelled in her exams at a prestigious university where she is one of the few female students in a male-dominated course. Despite her success, a group of male classmates began treating her rudely and challenging her aggressively in class discussions. The situation escalated when they made insinuations about her dating life, specifically insinuating that she received help from a PhD student she’d been seeing. Feeling anxious about the situation, OP confided in her supervisor, who decided to email the supervisors of the male classmates to remind them of proper conduct. The classmates confronted OP, expressing frustration about the potential consequences on their academic standing, including financial aid/scholarship issues. Now torn between standing up for herself and concerns about their academic future, OP wonders if she’s in the wrong for seeking support from her supervisor.
In the aftermath, tensions rise as the male classmates confront OP, blaming her for potential consequences on their academic standing and financial aid/scholarship. The situation has embarrassed OP, and conflicting opinions from friends add to her uncertainty. As the repercussions unfold, the male classmates face a shift in their relationship with their supervisors, who are now colder and less inclined to offer support.
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1. OP is studying in a male-dominated course at a prestigious university and she hasn’t gotten along with the guys in our course, because they are all very competitive and OP stopped interacting with them.
2. OP did well in her recent exams she topped two out of four exams after that, the group of male classmates have been gotten weird and they now outright and rude and challenge her aggressively in class discussions
3. They accused OP of pretty privilege and suggested that pretty female students get overscored in assessments
4. OP has been seeing a PhD student within her department for a month and he had nothing to do with OP’s course a student in OP’s class asked if her boyfriend helped her with the exams to which OP replied he’s not my boyfriend
5. OP has been dealing with anxiety even because of the accusations laid on her
6. OP raised this issue with her supervisor and they confronted OP after class that why she reported their silly joke
7. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not
8. NTA
9. An advice for everyone!
10. On point!
11. What are your thoughts on this?
12. OP you should be proud of yourself and you are NTA
13. Keep fighting the good fight!
14. Not even a single person said OP is an A-hole and we know why
15. Harassment should be reported immediately
16. This user made a solid point!
17. I agree with this!
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