Danish
Reddit user u/MoietTu123 shared that when her sister gave birth to twins, she instantly realized how difficult and challenging parenting is and gave up. So OP, the woman with heart, decided to take the twins in and took care of her. Soon after, OP’s mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. This resulted in OP’s responsibilities increasing even more. After realizing her sister was not going to do anything for anyone, OP also adopted the twins. After getting married and having a daughter with her husband, OP finally decided to move out of the house and shift her mother to a care home. This made the sister have some issues and demand her kids back as OP now had a daughter.
OP told her sister she would allow her to visit the kids but in no way can she live with them as she does nothing at all.
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Source: u/MoietTu123
1. Woah, suddenly so many questions popped up in my mind just by reading that title. Let’s jump straight in.
2. OP’s sister got pregnant at a very early age so she decided to take care of her two children.
3. The sister was very quick to give up on the responsibility as she realized how difficult it is to take care of children. Since then, the sister has only been feeding the babies, the rest is being done by OP and her parents.
4. After the sister’s twins were born, OP’s mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. This drastically increased the burden on OP as her responsibilities increased.
5. After completing her education, OP became the sole caretaker of the twins and her mother. She looked after them all.
6. OP then decided to adopt the twins and her sister signed the documents without showing any resistance.
7. When OP married her boyfriend a few years later, he accepted the twins happily.
8. When the twins turned 8, OP had her first daughter with her husband.
9. Even after getting married, OP and her husband lived with her parents because he had to take care of her sick mother. Her sister did nothing.
10. After deep consideration, OP and her husband decided to shift her mother into a care home and move out of the house themselves.
11. As OP took this decision, her sister suddenly started demanding her bio twins back.
What even? You cannot wake up one day and start demanding to become a parent all over again. The sister signed those adoption papers as if she didn’t give two sh*ts about her twins. She wanted to run away from the responsibility and she got what she wanted. She now has no legal right to get those kids back no matter what she does.
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Source: u/MoietTu123
12. OP says she would allow her sister to visit the twins but in no way would she be allowed to live with them.
13. OP doesn’t want her sister to live with them because she does not do anything and starts depending entirely on the person she lives with.
14. She made the same demand to have her kids back with the logic that OP now has her own daughter.
15. The sister even threatened OP to take legal action.
16. Her sister going to all sorts of limits made OP question her decision so she put her case forward before the courts of AITA subreddit.
Source: u/MoietTu123
Here are some of the comments shared on the story:
17. You cannot suddenly decide to become a parent upon convenience.
Via purplesky_12
18. This is so right. It really does seem like she woke up one day and thought to herself “I want my kids back”. Not how it works, lady.
19. OP’s sister has no way of getting those kids back. The papers are signed and they are emotionally attached to her now.
Via lonelyspren
20. A solid advice OP must follow.
Via Pladohs_Ghost
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