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In the midst of wedding preparations, a 23-year-old woman found herself at the center of a family conflict regarding who would walk her down the aisle. With a small family consisting of her mom, aunt, and uncle, the decision seemed straightforward to her—she had always dreamed of her uncle doing the honors. However, when she shared her choice, her mom was unexpectedly emotional, questioning why she hadn’t chosen her stepdad for the role. This revelation opened the floodgates to the woman expressing her long-standing resentment towards her stepdad, detailing the emotional toll he had taken on her during her teenage years.
As the truth about their strained relationship came to light, her mom, torn between her daughter and husband, attempted to mediate. The situation escalated when the woman openly declared her hatred for her stepdad and insisted he shouldn’t even attend the wedding. This confrontation led her mom to intervene, causing further contradicts within the family. In a surprising turn, the stepdad, hurt by the revelation, asked the uncle to step down from the role, creating a deeper divide within the family just as the wedding approached.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to tell us whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP is getting married to his boyfriend who has been with her for 6 years and they are having a large wedding as the family of his fiance is quite big moreover, OP said that her family is small and she has an aunt and uncle who are childfree. So OP always wanted her uncle to walk her down the aisle.
2. OP’s mom married her stepdad when OP was about 12 and she doesn’t like that’s because he’s a rac*st, and says terrible things to people moreover, he contributed to OP’s mental illness due to his behavior.
3. OP’s mom said despite having a nasty mouth he’s a good person but OP told her mom that she hates him anyway, OP moved out when she was 19 with her boyfriend and visits her mom 3 to 4 times a week.
4. OP’s mother insists her that he loves OP but it is not mutual and everyone assumed that OP loves him too
5. When OP got engaged she asked her uncle straight away that if he would walk her down the aisle and he was happy to do it but when OP’s mom came to know about this she was crying and called OP that it was breaking his stepdad’s heart but OP reassured her mother that she always wanted the uncle to walk her down the aisle.
6. OP said to her mom that there was nothing funny about him moreover, OP said that if it was upto her he wouldn’t even be at the wedding.
7. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not, let’s find out.
8. Yes, the fact that he involved OP’s uncle tells a lot about him.
9. OP is totally NTA, I mean it’s her wedding and it is completely up to her whom to invite and whom to not.
10. This user is absolutely right, it’s OP right to choose whom she wants to walk her down the aisle.
11. A point to be noted
12. What a point this user made, if people actually consider this there won’t be such problems.
13. Do what makes you happy OP!
14. OP told her mom from the start that she hates him but OP’s mother was deliberately in denial
15. In the end do what makes you happy, people can never be pleased no matter what you do for them.
16. What are your thoughts on this ladies and gentlemen?
17. No room for hate
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